AS IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO BEHAVE WITH THE GUY

As it is not necessary to behave with the guy
Or that destroys relations

In life of each person, irrespective of a floor and age, there is one rather hardy requirement is a thirst of dialogue and attention from an opposite sex. This requirement for different age starts to be shown and differently, therefore to be guided in this question by opinion of girlfriends is rather silly decision.

It is necessary to understand that each young lady finds the approach to heart of the brave knight. Simply in a head of each girl since the childhood the ideal image of the prince which will accompany then its all life is formed. Certainly, a brain we will understand all absurd or nerealistichnost' the thought up character, but to struggle with the settled images it is impossible. Thus it is necessary to remember that young men too have a ideal which they value. Often two ideals face - and on this soil there are plural conflicts. To reduce quarrels to a minimum, it is necessary to learn to make a compromise. For successful dialogue it is necessary to remember accurately As it is not necessary to behave with the guy.

First, it is necessary to Behave according to age. Certainly, young men like to care of the girlfriends, but to be nursed with the small child they obviously are not ready. The role of little girls is chosen for themselves by girls of years of twenty with a small tail which have picked up to itself the partner in life is more senior. They presume easy hysterics and childhood attacks. Such behaviour approaches them, and here for the girl it is better to behave naturally.

Also it is not necessary to arrange hysterics for the least thing and without cause as it is done by heroines of soap operas. Simply such behaviour quickly tyres - and in your quarrels you will be guilty only. It is necessary to study gradually from any situation to find a reasonable way out, to try to find the compromise. However it is not necessary to be fond excessively of philosophy and psychology for it can turn in regular kovyryanie in a brain of your friend. Such intrusion can be unpleasant - and will gradually cause the increasing irritation. And in no event it is impossible is artificial to add to itself years are looks ridiculously.

Secondly, it is impossible to limit personal space of the person. If you meet the young man, it does not mean that all of you should do together. Leave to it a few freedom is will help to make your relations more interesting and various. The free time can be used with mutual advantage. For example, it is possible to be engaged in fitness, to meet girlfriends or to be engaged in something useful. If all time to spend with each other, it is possible to be disappointed in such relations quickly. Simply constant dialogue will tyre, and then will seem to the young man persistence of you.

Thirdly, the constant requirement of gifts. Many young creations have got used to measure size of feeling in cost of gifts. During our inconsistent time it is necessary to understand that it is necessary all difficult. If you are expensive to the young man, he will buy to you the most magnificent gift which it presumes. Thus it is not necessary to demand from the usual fellow expensive cosmetics or new phone. Simply such requests can cause a regret which will develop in a complex of the loser in the Guy.

And at last, be as much as possible natural. Many girls try to seem ideal, carefully mask the lacks. It seems to the young man that he has met an ideal, and is then found out that the girl in life absolutely another. Try to understand that ideal people do not happen. Simply learn to accept itself and other people such what they are. It will help you to find the significant other - and will make your further life as much as possible comfortable.