THE MAIDEN DIARY

The maiden diary
Every day in human life there are any events - cheerful, sad, bright, happy. Especial from them it would be desirable to remember well, that after many years to remember all to the smallest details. Diary Conducting can help with it.

To many children parents suggest to keep a diary and to write down everything that has occurred to it during the day. It is interesting to the child, and besides stimulates memory development. With the years this employment bothers and is forgotten. But many children, frequently it concerns girls, continue to keep a diary and further, devoting it all the most secret.

Diary it is not simple a writing-book, he/she is the best interlocutor whom without words and the comment will listen to all problems and experiences. After all not each person can openly tell about the problem, share with the loved one, being afraid of condemnation or misunderstanding. And not everyone has this loved one or the friend with whom it is possible pootkrovennichat'.

The big merit of a diary is silence. It is possible to devote it in the most secret secrets and secrets, without being afraid that about them someone learns. The first love, quarrel with the best girlfriend, rest with friends, successes or failures in the study, any achievements - all is favourite themes for a diary. Each girl likes to gossip, discuss associates or a new dress of the girlfriend, but not all can express in the person the opinion and then the diary to the aid comes.

Today the daughter has sworn with the father because of late returning home, and tomorrow, having re-read the Insults Stated in a diary, quarrel will seem senseless, having understood good promptings of the father. Acquaintance to the nice guy has turned a head so that the diary was filled with set of data on the new acquaintance, since beautiful eyes, and finishing a short smile at parting. And for the morning, having seen records and having remembered yesterday's events, you endure all anew and you wait for the following meeting.

Records in a diary help not only to express, but also, having re-read the written lines, to consider the act or to reconsider the sights. So, at the young girl certain stereotypes, concepts are formed. Besides the diary learns to dialogue and even opens the creative data. Records in a diary open soul of the person, forcing, not simply to itemise lived instants - descended in shop, and has then gone on street, and in paints to describe event, to express the opinion, feelings, having endured in consciousness once again exciting moment.

The big error of some parents is the intolerable desire to learn, than there lives their child. And then the diary becomes the enemy as, coming into the hands of mum or fathers, ceases to be silent and tells all secrets told to it. And not each parent will wisely keep silent and will pretend that any diary in eyes did not see. After exposure of all secrets strict mums and fathers run to "rescue" the child from wrong as it seems to them, acts and by that, giving out itself in penetration into Private life of the child. After that the diary for ever leaves the maiden life, and parents lose trust of the child. A diary it is not simple the paper which has been used up small podcherkom, it is private life of the person which does not suffer intervention.

The maiden diary is a storehouse of secrets and secrets, experiences, tears and smiles. And each lived day, is every instant a small contribution to this storehouse and huge memoirs on all life. And after many years, a diary becomes the irreplaceable assistant in stories to children about the interesting life sated with various events.