WE LEARN TO COMMUNICATE WITH GUYS

We learn to communicate with guys
You want to Learn to communicate with guys? But to begin with, give we will be defined, for what it is necessary to you?

If you simply want to be the focus of attention, learn to keep up the conversation and get new friends then it is necessary for you:

As much as possible to read, be well informed about latest developments, to speak to the point, instead of simply nodding and assenting, but be not overzealous - nobody loves too clever little girls.

To find the style, never imitate and do not copy behaviour of other little girls, even those who Is a success at guys (they for certain too searched for the style of behaviour). For this purpose it is enough to remain such what you are, it is not necessary to show the independence, smoking and using foul language on a dog if actually you are a kind little girl who madly loves the kitten.

To get rid of uncertainty and shyness, remember - there are no ugly Little girls, there are what think that they are ugly. Attentively study the appearance, do not hesitate to wriggle before a mirror - in it not simply your reflexion, thus, you study yourself.

Find all pluses and minuses, write down on a paper. If minuses it has appeared more, it is normal, at you not overestimated self-estimation, and to you is over what to work. If there are more than pluses then what for you read this article? Really at you the Problem with guys?

To register in sports section, a dancing or theatrical circle. Work in collective rallies, helps to open internal potential, dialogue becomes comprehended and on business.

To talk to forums, but be not fond of frequent virtual "conversations", pass silly, to what not leading themes. Social networks liberate, but long sessions near the computer lead still to the big problems in usual dialogue, especially with guys. Begin correspondence with unfamiliar accounts, having thought - And it is necessary to you?

If your purpose - the certain Guy with whom you in any way do not manage to come into contact remember the following:

It try to be pleasant at first outwardly, for this purpose actively work over itself, involve the girl-friend, the sister or mum. It is possible to change a hairdress, to change a make-up, fashion.

But remember, you, probably, too Are pleasant to it, therefore, can leave all as is? Do not impose the dialogue, you can ask it about something but so that the prospective answer did not consist of words "yes" or "is not present", it is better, if it is a theme which it very well understands.

Try to learn a focus of his interests, study its predilections, for example, if it is fond of driving on a motorcycle, learn to understand versions and features of this iron horse. And as required, safely insert the opinion concerning this or that question. The main thing - to mix nothing, and not to name the carburettor the accumulator, and a speedometer - a barometre. At conversation try many and to smile openly, do not hesitate to laugh at its jokes and stories. Guys very much like to make impression, they subconsciously reach for those who is live and with interest reacts to their stories.

Attentively listen, about what he speaks, try to keep up the conversation, even if the theme is unfamiliar to you. Ask much, be surprised, admire its knowledge and abilities. To it it will be pleasant, then he will want to tell again to you something. Only do not create from it an idol, in all there should be a measure.

If you do not have hobby or hobby, find it, and at once there will be a weight of the interesting facts and events about which it is possible to talk. Not be the bore, be able to be switched from one conversation to another. Do not take offence, if to you do not listen, the theme means is not interesting. Remember it, and any more do not mention this question.

And the most important thing - dialogue should bring pleasure and pleasure. In any other case, well think - for what it is necessary to you?