PSYCHOLOGY OF THE ENAMOURED GUY

Psychology of the enamoured guy
Given article is intended for Girls. Namely for what at times ask a question «That happens with this guy? He after all so persistently achieved me? Also has suddenly ceased». This article will help them to understand psychology of the enamoured young man.

For certain each girl had such situations when it was pleasant to any young man, and it in every possible way shows to it signs on the attention. He all time calls to it, calls to take a walk somewhere, spends with it a lot of the time, makes Pleasant gifts and meets after work or study. However happens so that this guy can be pleasant to the girl not especially. Though like and nice, and not the silly. However bent for to it is not present, does not see its girl as the guy. The girl likes these all courtings, however she does not give a sign. And then once there comes the moment when this guy stops the courtings. And the girl remains in sincere bewilderment - why? How so it has turned out? We will try to understand, of what during such moment the guy thinks.

Stage №1. The Young man has met the girl, has fallen in love with it and aspires to Achieve it to create with it relations.

Stage №2. The guy starts to show to the girl that it is interesting to it, and to look after it. The purpose of it is that: he aspires to that this girl too Has fallen in love with it that its feelings became reciprocal. He waits for response. It Gives it flowers, does various pleasant surprises, calls in restaurants, that is in every possible way tries to show, how it to it is pleasant.

Stage №3. Through any time the Young man starts to understand distinctly that the girl does not love it any, does not make reciprocal actions. He sees that to the girl its courtings are pleasant, however she does not allow it to translate their relation from a stage of friendly relations in the romantic. And he wants to name it for a long time already «The girl» and to spend with it time a little differently, than it occurs.

Stage №4. The guy definitively guesses that it is not interesting to the girl as the guy, and, hence, all its actions are senseless. Therefore he any more does not wish to spend the time and monetary resources for that nothing to receive finally. It simply bothers it.

Stage №5. The guy completely realises that fact that the girl who to it is nice, never with it will be, it simply "hammers" on such girl. And then he any more does not perceive it as the Girl, even in spite of the fact that it very much is pleasant to it. Through any time it looks for to itself(himself) a new nominee which answers its displays of feelings, and they start to develop the relations.

Well and that occurs to that Girl who was pleasant to it earlier further - it is not known. She can realise the error and be sorry about a criminal conduct, and can forget simply about this young man, and find to itself the new boyfriend. Though there are such cases when guys even after cease to look after the girl, at a meeting with it again dream to become Its guy. However they try not to show already it as understand that in it there is no more sense, and do not want to suffer and strain more. Therefore usually they try to stop completely any dialogue with this girl, not to see it and not to hear, that it was easier than it to forget. And more often they shortly forget it.

So, dear girls, inaccessibility is, certainly well, but all should be moderately. It is necessary to look narrowly attentively for the Boyfriend and long not to represent inaccessibility, not to frighten off it, not to push away and not to be sorry further about the missed chance. And suddenly it is destiny?