TEST OF RELATIONS BY ARMY

Test of relations by army
Army - test not only for those who serves, but also for those who waits. At eighteen-year age when many guys call up for military service, the majority of them yet did not test true love and are not ready to serious relations. The concept love for girls, unlike guys, is much more.

As a rule, women are inclined to exaggerate the feelings. They think that on love wings rush fortunately, and only joyful moments ahead wait. But here unexpectedly darling Take away on service in army, see the guy the girl long enough time cannot.

Before to promise favourite that she it will necessarily wait, it is necessary to think seriously, after all the army is an original test of love for durability. Having told: «Yes, I am ready to wait!», the girl incurs huge responsibility. It is possible to present only as to the man it will be sick and heavy if it does not fulfil the promise and will write in the letter: «Excuse, has met other guy …».

Long separation will be sustained only by true love. Therefore for itself it is necessary for girl to define at first, what relations at it with the guy. We will tell, whether there are general interests, whether they understand each other, whether trust secrets and secrets and much another. The girl should present the future with this man. Whether that is the person with whom she wants to go hand in hand on life, whether is ready to offer the interests that favourite it was good. When the girl is assured that the love will stand hard tests, it is possible to make safely the promise to the guy to Wait for it from army. The meeting after long separation will necessarily bring the hugest pleasure. The girl will understand at once that for the sake of such moment it was necessary to wait long.

After army, it becomes clear that it not that shy boy whom knew earlier, now it the man - responsible, strong and mature. When the girl is not assured that has found the guy with whom it is ready to divide the future it is not necessary to make the promise to wait for this person. It is just necessary to spend it and not to forget to support letters, calls. And already after service in army to decide destiny of such relations.

After leaving of the guy in army, the girl, as a rule, feels alone, it does not have possibility to see favourite, to hear its voice, to go with it on parties, discos, dances. Certainly, the modern young person would not like to sit in "solitary life". Besides, some women are not assured that after returning from army darling will not change the relation to them. After all many children very seldom write from army, call, come. It is difficult to Wait for the guy if that cannot support favourite in a hard time.

One more reason on which she can cease to wait for the guy is a jealousy of other girl which possibly he could meet on service. The woman needs not to get excited, be reasonable, and the main thing not to forget to write favourite even then when he seldom answers letters or calls. The modern army is not a resort. Sometimes simply there is no time to answer. Darling needs to be supported. We will tell, to write that it the strongest and the best. Warm letters, tender and warm words will give to it of confidence and new forces to serve up to the end, without having broken. At possibility it is necessary for girl to visit the favourite. We will tell, during the oath or meetings with the native.

Very important rule - not to give occasions to jealousy. It is not obligatory to describe or tell about how was per day a birth at the girlfriend or in a disco. It is necessary to remember, if feelings of two people the presents they will overcome all barriers, and furthermore such, as distance and time.