How the first to make a declaration of love to the guy?
Here already some time you cannot think of what. Meal, girlfriends, books, discos and other pleasures do not bring any pleasure. You all time look around in illusive hope to see It. The love at teenage age usually painful also brings many sufferings. After all few steams which are created during this period of life, come to something rather serious, to marriage and a family in the future.
As a rule, Relations between teenagers are short-lived. And all because energy and maximalism from them simply are in full swing. Little girls are usually more vulnerable before similar feelings. They worry, suffer, suffer, cannot do anything with itself. Search for answers to questions: «How to make a declaration of love to the elect? Whether it is necessary to do it? Whether it will love?».
The girls who have Fallen in love with all the heart and heart, do not despair. Calm down and give understand in the circumstances.
If your heart is torn from a breast, without restraint beats at occurrence of that guy which excites your mind and calmness variants of succession of events after the Declaration of love can be two. It in most cases depends on that, it is mutual or not.
The first variant means that the guy reciprocates your feelings, you spend with it time, he in every possible way shows to you sympathy. In this case, when you will understand that any more in forces to keep the emotions around, can safely tell the treasured I "Love". There is a high probability of that in the answer you will hear the same. It is not necessary to be upset, if the magic phrase «And I you» and does not sound. Probably, your elect has become puzzled or simply is not ready to tell still it. And can happen, of course, and so that your relations after that will deteriorate and will come to naught. Do not despair, it is visible not your significant other. It will be difficult, but feelings cannot be held in itself, speak about them, in it there is nothing reprehensible. And with that who will not estimate it, to you it is simple not on the way. Life very long also conceals in itself many surprises and unexpectedness.
The second variant assumes that your elect does not guess at all that you were smitten with love for it. He leads the life, communicates with other girls and you simply does not notice. Such situations are most extended. In this case, before to shout about the feelings, try to approach somehow with the guy of your dream, to make friends, find the general interests. If he does not want to go on contact, that, believe, your Words of love especially are not necessary to it. It is insulting, annoyingly, but life will not end while you will understand that to you shines nothing. Do not dramatize, even if someone will laugh over your feelings - it doesn't matter. Will pass time, and you will remember it with a sad smile.
Anyway, if you seriously dare at the Recognition, follow some councils. First, pick up for this purpose convenient time when nothing will distract both of you. Secondly, try, that the moment was romantic, or create such conditions. Thirdly, it is not necessary to give thus expensive gifts, it obliges the guy even more, and after all it can and not reciprocate. And, fourthly, be afraid of nothing, the one who does not do anything is not mistaken only. It will be valuable life experience whatever has occurred.
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