IF AT YOU LAUGH

If at you laugh
If your acquaintances, and also Schoolmates laugh at you at school, know that you not one have faced this problem. Every third little girl is in the same precisely situation, everyone however admits it not. Therefore, if you have realised the problem and is ready to solve it, you already have practically achieved success, now it is important to believe in it.

The main thing that it is necessary for you to make now is to face the problem and to overcome it once and for all. So, you should know that Associates laugh at you as feel your uncertainty and weakness. It as a dog who will bite only the one who runs from it. From you will laugh until you will give an occasion. No, not the behaviour, but the fear that for each your act you obsmeyut.

So, we start to solve a problem. Become before a mirror and look at itself as the critic looks at the victim, only do not take in head to feel sorry for itself, differently all efforts will be vain. What do you see in a mirror? The nice girl beautifully dressed, tidy, with a beautiful smile, whether not so? Why all it disappears, as soon as before you there are your offenders why you turn at once to the hammered Defective girl who suffers sneers? Where that girl who faced a mirror has got to and looked at itself confident eyes? All is simple - she was frightened, and after all fear not better quality if you want to become successful in this life.

There is one excellent way to overcome the fear - you it is necessary to mature urgently. For what it is necessary? The matter is that at this age you suffer from youthful maximalism, that is the opinion of your acquaintances and your class costs in a priority if they speak something bad, you automatically start to trust in it, and it is necessary for you to learn not to pay attention to opinion of the same teenagers, as well as you. Here, ask any adult person, what does he think of Opinion of people extraneous to it, and he will answer you that to it all the same that associates think of it. You should think as the adult person and when you will show that you is valid all the same for these sneers, yours it will be not interesting to offenders to laugh at you as they will understand that you above and more wisely them.

Besides it is necessary for you to Work constantly over itself to become the self-assured person as confidence it is visible from apart, and its one sneer can shake. What for this purpose it is necessary? Take a sheet of paper and it is diligent with all details draw the standard of the beauty, that is what you would want to be. Give particular attention to colour and length of hair, colour of nails, fashion and so on. Now hang up this picture over the bed is «dream visualisation» is called, and try to aspire to this ideal on the sly. Certainly, very quickly you cannot reach perfection, but is maximum to it come nearer completely in your forces. Slowly, without cardinal transformations Change itself: to begin with buy such clothes as on a picture, then paint hair such colour, change the form of nails and if it is required, reverse the image. And, the most important thing - do all it with full confidence that you are worthy only the best, you are stronger, than all your offenders, you are better than them, and they only and are able how to laugh at you while you change for the better.

And, at last, it would be desirable to tell: «Our life is that, what is done by its our thoughts». If you cease to Pay attention to sneers and to worry about it, they will stop as to laugh at you any more there will be no sense, after all it does not touch you. You should understand that associates laugh at you only to offend you and to tease. Be above it is do not take offence.