WHAT TO DO, IF YOU LIKE THE GUY OF THE BEST GIRL-FRIEND

What to do, if you like the guy of the best girl-friend
Unfortunately, in our life nobody is insured from the Love triangle. That time and again it has been proved both guys, and girls. After all, as popular wisdom says, heart cannot order. But what to do, if you like the guy of the best girlfriend?

Exit from this situation there are at least three. But to begin with you need to analyse the feelings and to find out, what exactly you feel to this person, whether really you love it. After all agree, it will be wrong to break long-term friendship for the sake of any second hobby. So, if your feelings sincere, and you cannot really present life without the guy of the girlfriend, it is time to operate. Let's consider more detailed what variants of the decision of the given problem exist.

Variant the first - to beat off the guy

Analyse, as it concerns you. If this guy pays you attention, renders sympathy signs, means to "receive" it really and very simply. If it avoids you or concerns neutrally, all is much more difficult. Therefore, before to start to operate it is necessary to force to become interested it in your person. Here again, as though it is banal did not sound, Your girlfriend will come to the rescue. But consider, it is necessary to operate accurately, without causing special suspicions. Try as it is possible to do is more often "casual" meetings, speak with it about its hobby, start to be fond of the same, as it. You should become for it the close friend, cause in it trust. After you will be convinced that your friendship has got stronger, start to hint gradually to it at the feelings and to point out the defects its favourite (only on what really are, it is not necessary to invent anything). Believe, it will very quickly bear fruit. Here only, friendship, alas, there is no time to return already it will not be possible. Therefore, before to take this step, think over all well. After all as do not twist, and it nevertheless meanness.

The variant of the second - will be switched to another

Many psychologists advise in such situation to find for themselves other object of sympathy. After all, if you is fond of Other guy, to the girlfriend you will forget in due course about the guy. But, unfortunately, to make it it is very difficult. Therefore try to avoid with it of meetings, remove from telephone directory its phone number, do not listen to stories of the girlfriend about what it remarkable and as they have well spent together evening. You should get rid of everything that to you of it reminds. Better even in first two weeks after you will decide it to forget, does not see the girlfriend.

Pay attention to that it, perhaps, one of the best ways of the decision of the given problem. As here you do not make meanness and can and further is quiet look the girlfriend in the face. Plus to everything, you do not risk, after all still it is not known as the guy of your Best girlfriend will react to this all.

Variant of the third - to leave everything as is

As the practice shows, many girls in this case prefer to leave everything as is. But it is impossible so to do, after all it will bring to you sufferings. Moreover also it is not known as your secret love will long last. Adhering to the third variant, you will lose of hundred percent both favourite, and the girlfriend. After all such friendship except a pain will not bring anything, therefore you will constantly break on the girlfriend and to blame her for all sins. Because of it your Dialogue and friendship will gradually die away. But in this time you will tear the nervous system and will receive stress. And it is necessary for nobody. Therefore, is better stop the choice on the first or second variant.

And at last remember, it is not necessary to machinate and compose gossips. After all all it can turn back against you.