IN MARRIAGE RIGHT AFTER SCHOOLS

In marriage right after schools
The theme about which we will try to talk today to you, is not so indifferent to any young girl. The it becomes more senior, the it is more than questions about the future arises at it: where to go to study, whom to become, and, certainly, In how many years to marry?

Certainly, to become the professional it is necessary, at least, half a year - if is a question only of works on which special higher education is not required. For the others - five years. And here to marry - it is possible though right after schools!

Let's understand: whether it is necessary to do it?

The love does not suffer delays, and sometimes for the sake of darling the girl is ready to offer all - study, prospects in work and even relations with parents who often happen against early marriage of the daughter (and they are in many respects right). Condemn resoluteness of the girl we too we can not. After all, maybe, in it also there will be a sense of her life. If the love present - that of obstacles cannot be.

Another matter that persistently shows the statistican: Early marriages seldom happen are successful! The majority of pairs get divorced. And anything surprising in it is not present. After all the matrimony assumes not only romantic relations, but also responsibility for all. In a family children are born - and it is necessary to be engaged in their education seriously. To have such possibility, it is necessary to have not only high moral qualities, but also social guarantees. Differently - it is far not last role plays also a life, and it directly is connected with material possibilities of a family.

Now we will look that the girl after school can give to a family. Certainly, it can become the devoted wife and loving mother. But …

1. It will not have any social guarantees as she cannot earn sufficient means yet. That is no "insurance" at it is present. It cannot bring the equivalent contribution in the family finance and, more often, becomes completely dependent on the husband. In case of divorce - to it it will be very difficult.

2. If, despite the Marriage, the girl all the same has decided to study - to it it will be much more difficult, than to unmarried classmates. On it duties on the house will already lie, and not all young wives have time to cope with all. If there are children - the situation even more will become complicated, especially, when nearby there are no grandmothers and the grandfathers, ready to incur care of the kid that young mum has successfully studied up.

3. Having married right after schools, the girl can limit considerably and the outlook. If its coevals conduct still an active way of life: to go in tourist trips, to visit various exhibitions, to go to theatres, cinema - and simply to communicate, for it all it can become inaccessible. Certainly, it just is not obligatory - all will depend on the spouse and from material possibilities of pair.

Therefore, before to make decision to marry right after schools, it is necessary to weigh all very carefully. It is possible to agree only in the event that you are assured:

1. This person really deserves such trust.

2. Your Future husband already taken place person, instead of the same yesterday's schoolboy, as well as you. It can provide family back.

3. You precisely know that the spouse will not close you within four walls at home, and will welcome your study and even will render the feasible help, for example, to you will help with domesticities, especially in session.

4. The husband will give the chance to you to communicate with girlfriends, i. e. you will not be isolated from contemporaries - after all there is a weight of questions which can be discussed only with them.

In each case - all very individually. To agree or disagree on a marriage right after schools - to solve only to the girl. We have mentioned the statistican of unsuccessful marriages, but it will be unfair, if we do not tell and that there are women - the present clear heads whom having married very much early, nevertheless were in time all: both to be learnt, and to reach certain heights in career, and the main thing - have kept a family and have brought up remarkable children! So - all depends on you!