I WANT TO BE SIMILAR TO A CELEBRITY

I want to be similar to a celebrity
"Do not create to itself an idol" - one of Bible precepts says. Many not up to the end penetrate into these words which have very capacious sense. Throughout all life each person has teachers, instructors, parents, friends and Idols.

However the person not always can choose correct Model for imitation. While mind has not got stronger, and the own opinion was not generated, many teenagers get to a certain dependence on that idol which to itself create. First in it there is nothing bad. If the idol is successful, talented, can be a quite good example for imitation. But after all if to glance more deeply, people are not deprived defects. The idol can be the talented singer or the actor, can get used to roles or have a beautiful voice and write songs in which there is a sense.

The reverse of the medal consists that the idol way of life can be far from an ideal. The idol can be the bad family man, the idler, to conduct in a root a wrong way of life. When teenagers find to themselves an idol, owing to age they do not reflect that it is impossible to copy blindly all life of the one whom you idolise. It is difficult to find a worthy example for imitation, without being allocated from crowd. Uncertainty in - here the basic problem of teenagers. Uncertainty throws youth on searches of the one who should be imitated. Having found an idol, they find adherents, dialogue and their life is filled with sense.

Problem in that the modern youth creates to itself at all those idols which should be imitated. Magazines, television, tabloids, transfers - all it helps to create an image and to find to itself object for imitation. "Mainstream" that means, main current, involves in itself not strong minds of rising generation. Main currents are based that is modern and popular for today. That involves a large quantity of people, does not mean high quality. Poor-quality "stars" engender wrong ideals at teenagers. The effect of such dependence and involving in idol Creativity can be pernicious.

Unfortunately, the more the teenager depends on the idol, the it becomes more dangerous it. In the beginning the teenager simply watches news, data, latest developments from idol life. Then the Love to an idol starts to become more and more fanatical.

Through any time fashion becomes similar to an idol. Then it already insufficiently. It would be desirable to have the same features and appearance. The unhealthy hobby for an idol can lead the fan even to the cosmetic surgeon. At this stage all becomes very critical. Psychological frustration - the most smaller that can arise against such unhealthy inclination. Dependence of not strong mind of the teenager is pernicious. To what unhealthy hobby for an idol to finish it can is known to one God.

In formation of the person it is very important, that the teenager has not got in bad the company, has not started to be fond of any main currents which can play with it a malicious joke. Parents are those people who always should be a number, to be capable to help the to the child to understand that is good and that is not present. It is very important to know that in a head at the teenager and not to lose it in the teenage period. It is very important to explain that it is possible to admire talent of other people.

There are many worthy people who can inspire. First of all, it is very important to understand that the one who inspires, is a worthy Example for imitation. To admire the well-known and talented person is one, and to idolise and depend on it is absolutely another. It is very important to find this thin side not to be lost in the world where so it is difficult to understand that well and that is bad.