TREACHERY OF THE FRIEND

Treachery of the friend
Still recently you Trusted this person, revealing it the most secret secrets, you supported this person a difficult minute and rejoiced, when in his life there is something good. It was easy to you to communicate and cheerfully to spend time. You considered this person as the friend. And you was without a difference the guy it or the girl. Important one: the person your friend so, it is close to you on outlook, interests, the purposes in life.

The friend - the Loved one. Nothing will wound heart so strongly, as treachery of the loved one. In life of each girl occurs so that the girlfriend withdraws the guy, or the friend substitutes, slings mud behind the back. In a word, treachery of the friend causes shock, driving in deep depression.

Why so has occurred? This person the friend! How it could so to arrive? Unfortunately, and envy, insult, desire to sneer at people is peculiar to friends. Very often because of friendship there is a competition when people try to ego-trip. Happens also such that at us in life so all is good that we slightly Forget about friends, their problems, troubles. We rejoice, and the person sits in depression. We tell about the happiness, and to the friend is insulting and is sick, but to tell about it it does not want, preferring to keep away and betray.

What to do, if the Friend has betrayed, has turned away a difficult minute of life? Treachery is, of course, unpleasant, but is not deadly. To begin with it is necessary to stop depressovat' and to try to understand a situation. Sometimes ourselves push friends to treachery, forcing them to make a choice between us and something else, not less important for them. And here disappointment! The friend has chosen not us. And it is no wonder. Friends too live people with the interests, requirements. And they are not obliged to endow for the sake of us something expensive. It is not necessary to put the friend in rigid frameworks of a choice then keep friendship. There are other situations. For example, the person is weak and cowardly on character, and you force it to be spoiling for a fight. As a result the friend has lost heart. Whether treachery it? Certainly, no. It simply Error of the friend, a ridiculous situation which it is necessary to concern with humour, and the friend - to forgive. It is necessary to distinguish the present treachery from such errors and not to take offence on trifles. In general it is necessary to concern life philosophically and in the decision of challenges to hope only on itself, instead of to shift responsibility on another's shoulders.

And if the friend, really, Has betrayed? It is a lot of exits: not to go into scandals, hysterics, and to translate the person in a rank of acquaintances, on a minimum with it to communicate and not to hope for it in difficult situations. Sometimes, as though badly was, it is better to laugh over a situation and over this person, than to cry uncontrollably. The laughter treats. Besides ideal people does not happen, nobody is deprived lacks. The friend has appeared artful and mean is only its lacks. It is not necessary to revenge the friend even if it has made very mean act. The most optimum decision - to forget this person, to delete from the life. The one who has betrayed once, will make it still repeatedly.

If all ways set forth above do not help, and depression does not leave, it is possible to try to express the emotions in drawing, in the composition of stories, music and etc. the Main thing to find hobby which brings positive emotions. It is not necessary to retire into himself/herself, become embittered on people, to say that the world - an unfair piece. Treachery does us more strongly, learns to understand better people, to accept their such what they are.

Treachery - invaluable life experience. Besides in the world it is a lot of the people, therefore new friends to find simply. And treachery learns to that, before to Trust the person, it is necessary to check up it necessarily.