Casual pregnancy
If to call things by their proper names - Not casual, and not Planned. You knew, what from seksa there are children? Yes, but around it is so much childless couples which dream of the child, and Pregnancy does not come!
Means, at them, fastest, problems with reproductive health.
You do not have these problems! And it, believe, good news. However, while last.
At first about what it is not necessary to do. First, to listen to skilled girl-friends or neigbours about class and painless house methods of the decision of this problem. In general it is better not to devote them in this delicate problem - the probability of information leakage is very great. Secondly - «the changed person to run to a pond» is a black humour, of course, but it is far not the greatest trouble which happens from not protected seksa.
Remember properly - you not the criminal and not the fallen woman. Millions if not billions, men and women are engaged ceksom without intention to give birth to the child. Many thus do not consist of them in the registered marriage. Another matter that such by-effect of this fascinating employment as pregnancy lays down basically on female shoulders. Unfairly? Certainly! And life in general is unfair - you were repeatedly convinced of it. Now you should accept one of the most important decisions in your life. To leave or get rid? If "delay" already is more than week - it is time to operate!
The first visit - to the gynecologist. Sometimes even the monthly Delay does not mean that Pregnancy has come. Only the doctor can precisely define it. If doubts are not present - at first tell to the guy. Even if you consider, at heart, that it is necessary to do abortion. It and its child, and it has the right about it the nobility. On its reaction to this news you will understand all. If it is the reliable person and the true friend it will encourage you, and it can even be material. And if will tell that the child should be kept and will suggest to get married - this variant too should be considered properly with participation of yours and his parents. For such hero it is necessary to keep, eat probability that you similar any more will not meet!
Fastest, of course, he will be frightened and will fade - keep in mind that it is the most probable reaction of the man to this message. On it also count, having sex with the future partners!
The adult woman is not only class prikid and a make-up, but also good luggage of knowledge concerning protection from undesirable pregnancy. And pregnancy, I repeat, it yet the greatest trouble which happens from sex. About AIDS to you told in detail at school, and here is how correctly to be protected - to it mum should teach. Did not learn? It too is guilty that with you happens!
So, we devote parents - they, eventually, the grandmother and the grandfather and have the right to vote. Fastest they will be for interruption. What? They also will pay considerable cost of the medicamentous way of interruption most harmless to health. And if they solve in another way? Then you can count on their help! Without them to you unequivocally not to consult.
Public opinion on the party of preservation of any Pregnancy. In words. Look narrowly at opponents of abortions, whether all they fathers having many children and mothers? The overwhelming majority of women has on a shower this sin. Such is life!
The society which sounds alarm concerning catastrophic reduction of population in our huge territory, in practice while undertakes nothing.
The child is almost unreal to attach in a kindergarten. You will sit with it of the house till 7th years. These are years of your youth which in life not to repeat any more! Female work on care of the kid of the majority of the population is not appreciated. It is possible addition to professional career. Also it is not considered that in days 24 hours and at young mums too.
And how the heroine of a film «Moscow does not trust tears» which, living in a hostel, has given birth to the child, has achieved the high status on manufacture and has caught the man of the dream? It is a fantasy! Or a miracle. Its girl constantly lived on kruglosutke in a garden, and the schoolgirl every summer three months was in pioneer camp while mum did career? Then the happiness of motherhood was very much any one-sided!
All is now easier and more difficult. There is a possibility to work and study in a mode online. But for this purpose the persistence, self-discipline and confidence of the correctness is required to you.
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