HOW TO KEEP RELATIONS ON DISTANCE

How to keep relations on distance
Our life very unpredictable and sometimes it separates Enamoured hearts, checking this force of their feelings. But as though there was not, and Relations on distance - serious test, to pass which it is given not to everyone.

Psychologists assert that thanks to such novel it is possible to understand itself, in the guy, to understand your feelings are how much strong. If between you there is no love but only hobby, sympathy, sustain separation they cannot. And what for they are necessary without love?

But if your relations really strong and light, they only become stronger, and separation will do you good. Thanks to it, feelings will be warmed up, you learn to Appreciate each other and each minute spent with the favourite will remind a holiday.

Also it is not necessary to listen to people who aspire to impose to you a stereotype that the happy end in this case cannot be. After all here all completely depends on you a two. But psychologists recommend not to suppose nevertheless the main errors and to adhere to certain rules.

Let's consider a situation more detailed. So:

- Accept a situation. Certainly, to leave terribly, very much it would not be desirable to feel itself lonely, to nobody necessary. But it is not necessary to grieve. Believe, there are people who live together, but thus feel lonely. At you is favourite and you can talk or write to any opportunity with it to it. Today the mankind uses e-mail which for an instant is capable to deliver lines expensive to heart, phone thanks to which it is possible to hear a voice even from other point of a planet, and also skajpom with which help you will communicate, let and virtually.

- Speak about the plans. You should plan, stand together the schedule of Relations on distance. For example, agree, as you will often correspond by e-mail, who to whom and as will often come (if it probably) as will often communicate by phone. Here the most important thing that your romanticism has not come to naught.

- Do not hesitate. It is considered what to Express the feelings on distance very hard, and you be an exception of this rule. After all when it is impossible to transfer love a sight, a smile and gentle touches, there are only words.

- Appreciate independence. Love it is fine, but it should not cover completely you at all. You should not be dissolved in it then it becomes simple you not, favourite will cease to appreciate you. Therefore, try to appreciate the freedom, spend time with girlfriends, register in any section, have a good time in discos. In a word - lead full life.

- «Warm up relations». Do from time to time for darling any unexpected surprises. So, for example, write it the romantic letter. Let it is not fashionable, let all use e-mail, and you for a change go on mail, buy, as in olden days an envelope, marks and put there the next declaration of love. Believe, it will make strong impression.

- Communicate as it is possible is more often. But consider, your conversations should be filled by pleasure, dreams. Exchange news, speak about how have spent day that new at school, tell about the general friends. In these conversations there should not be a place to shouts, disputes, findings-out of situations. Certainly, it is possible a little bit porevnovat' or to argue, but provided that it will not leave for defined frameworks.

As you can see, to keep relations on distance it is necessary to put a few efforts. Try to think constantly only of a positive side of a current situation and at you necessarily all will turn out.

Patience to you and a fast meeting with the favourite!