How to make a declaration of love to the best friend
Are enamoured of the best friend and do not know, what with the feelings to do further? Open! It is not necessary to hold all in itself, to suppress the love and to pretend that occurs nothing.
According to scientists in the field of psychology, the strongest mutual relations and marriages are based on friendship. We are in constant search of the ideal Significant other, and it during this moment is nearby, it is enough only to get accustomed and want to consider this fact. You, certainly, can be afraid to open the feelings before the friend not to spoil your mutual relations and not to lose its arrangement. It is not necessary, it is not necessary! If your Friendship actually present to it no recognitions are terrible. Try to foresee reaction of your friend to your revelation.
Simulate such situation: passing (jumping) through the big pool, take your friend for a hand. What its reaction? It was discharged? Has released your hand at once after successful overcoming of an obstacle? Or it continues to hold till now your hand in the? On its reaction you will understand at once, whether it is necessary to you to force events or it is necessary to wait a little a little. In the latter case, repeat original attempt of rapprochement and proschupyvaniya soils in some days, and compare results of its reaction to your affinity, your touches to the previous!
Make to it an unexpected recognition! When he at all does not suspect about storming in your soul and heart feelings, open to it all truth. Be explained, looking continuously in his eyes, how much strong Emotions you to it test, and that it has a choice: to accept your Love or to reject.
Also it is possible to organise a written Recognition for your friend. Give vent to the sufferings and experiences on a paper, then will invite him in any romantic place and read note contents. Perhaps, having like intimate atmosphere of an event, your friend too suddenly will understand that rather than simply friendship has to your of Feeling much stronger and deep.
Try to happen more often together: Leave on the nature, go to the cinema, in cafe, go, eventually, to joint travel to the sea. So at you will be more chances to win an arrangement of your friend-gentleman. If neither you, nor at your best friend do not have constant partners you can to try meet with each other. And suddenly from this something, and will turn out? Especially, if between you there is a sparkle then it can be transformed to a passionate flaring flame. In the event that nevertheless this invention leaves nothing, do not despair, you can always return to that stage of your relations with which all have begun it! But there are also such situations when, nevertheless, it is necessary to wait a little with a recognition.
Let's consider them on concrete examples:
1. Your friend has a constant Girl. For what do not interfere with their mutual relations, do not insert a stick it into wheels, do not try to set at variance. Remember, their feelings concern only their two, to you in them not a place. And the termination of this communication they too should accept decisions on continuation / independently, without assistance.
2. You most have a guy. Look, do not play! After all, as it is known: you will try to kill two birds with one stone, you will not catch any!
3. It has not accepted and has not divided your Feelings. If will find forces to remain with it easier friends, make it. Do not insist, differently risk to destroy and your friendship.
4. Near to the friend you feel calmness and a cosiness. It is good, but there is not enough for construction of strong and harmonious Mutual relations, think, can, you accept absolutely other feelings for love?
5. You do not want to see the friend in embraces of other girl. The jealousy and egoism at all do not decorate the person and it at all an occasion to do your friend by the partner in life. Therefore not be the child and give to the friend most to solve with whom nearby to it to be.
6. You are firmly assured that your recognition will destroy your friendship. How you consider, game in this case costs svech? I think, no! After all the presents, reliable friends to find very hardly, whether so there is an unsteady hope of illusive happiness of such victim? Will not be violently lovely, and if Loves only one relations are doomed to failure!
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