Female coquetry
The desire to be pleasant - the most important and purely female quality, with its help the woman in any conditions remains desired and attractive. Even little girls involuntarily in the behaviour use coquetry elements. And at girls-teenagers the Coquetry is already behaviour with a sexual inclination.
At the heart of a coquetry - desire to involve, interest men the appearance, or private world. One of the most frequent examples of a female coquetry is «shooting by eyes», like the girl looks aside and as though at the guy. Also it is possible to carry kisses of the girl when she in the presence of the young man who have pleasant to it kisses the sister to a coquetry, the brother or the girlfriend the desire of the guy that he has kissed her, thus, tries to cause. Usually these actions are defined as the nonverbal signals saying to the man that it is desired that it is pleasant. And how the man in this situation will lead? Perfectly, all men without an exception love coquettes, it it is pleasant that to them have paid attention. The coquetry, or flirtation, is simply inseparable from dialogue with the man.
At puberty of the boy in character there is an activity, nastupatel'nost' in dialogue with women. At puberty of the girl passivity is characteristic, on the contrary. But so it seems only from outside. Frequently girls in such questions are a bit more active than young men because for women it is important to draw attention of all men, instead of someone of one selected works. That young man who has paid to her attention and has made a declaration of love to it, has already departed in the past. Ahead new gains and victories.
The young man practically is always aimed at one object, and only all its activity is directed to that party. The woman with the Coquetry applies many efforts for achievement of successes at a male. Appearing on a party, at school, in the street, with the young man, or without it, the girl feels requirement for attention from men that those have turned on it the looks, as on the woman. Therefore the basic part of time at the girl leaves on employment by self: make-up selection, development of the style of behaviour, a manner to behave, attractive gait and a beautiful bearing. This aspiration of the future woman to find the "I" to be individual, distinct from all the others.
The beauty of the woman is supplemented with a brisk sight, pleasant manners and a gentle voice. And all is reached it by means of a coquetry which arises only in the presence of persons of an opposite sex, that is involuntarily, and gives to the woman of even more appeal.
There is no such girl who would not know that aggressiveness, activity, persistence do not decorate the woman, and, on the contrary, do its pushing away. Timid girls, its sense - the easy answer to attention of the man involve guys.
Shyness - coquetry top, a temptation for a male and stimulus to prove more actively.
The coquetry is a solo performance. To play it it is necessary different images, after all men love a variety.
The coquetry is peculiar to all women, it decorates the woman, shows its essence, helps to achieve love of men.
Therefore, young ladies, it is necessary to Coquet, be timid if it is necessary - bashful. But, at all affected, it is not necessary to "go too far": nadutye sponges, excessive kapriznost', gestures as at the five years' child - it will be not not suffered by any man.
Coquet with guys, but it is not too frank not to attract on itself anger of girls surrounding you. Do all moderately and then any man will appear at your feet.
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