Give we will make friends! Five things in common with ancestors.
«What happens with my mum? Yesterday I was the favourite girl, and today have looked as if I at a nightmare. Also what I such have made?». Each Teenager though time in life asked itself this question. The answer always one: «She does not understand me». I suggest to apply Five things in common with parents and «neponyatki» at once will disappear.
Point the first. Accuracy politeness of kings.
At early age it would be desirable to spend a lot of time with friends. But walk quickly comes to an end, and for delay - Reprimand from parents. Agree about time of return from walk. Also be exact, as kings. For them accuracy a point of honour and advantages. Vital sekretik. Parents are psychologically ready to wait easy till appointed time, later - competition of disturbing thoughts under the motto «something begins happens». And here exact returning grants the right to a bonus in time for the following walk.
Point the second. I do not want to study, I want …
The main opening of teenagers - an opposite sex, it suddenly becomes interesting and desired. It would be desirable to see every minute an interested sight, instead of to go to school and to do boring lessons. The two - only annoying hindrance and discontent of parents. It is better to tell to Parents about the hobby! And from their consent, having learnt lessons, to communicate with object of attention.
Vital sekretik. To parents is much quieter, when they know, with whom their children spend time.
Point the third. And behind a window music played.
Most «tusovochnoe» a place of Teenagers - favourite club or the nearest cafe. And here loud music of the house or at an entrance - the true remark «make more silently». Things in common - buy ear-phones. Music is, the problem is not present.
Vital sekretik. Parents too attentively listen to modern music, but not always it understand. Allow to listen to the favourite records, explain sense and in the house there will be general favourite hits.
Point the fourth. You today such beautiful.
Young it would be desirable to look especially stylishly. To a course there are multi-coloured hairdresses, baubles, tatushki that causes the protest and misunderstanding in parents. Persuade mum to make a new hairdress, connect to it a beautiful ornament from threads or beads. She feels a little more youngly and not begins to condemn your dress.
Vital sekretik. In a shower each woman wants to feel young and beautiful. Help them to feel it, and you will have a faithful supporter in clothes.
Point the fifth. Talk to me, mum.
Perhaps, it is the most difficult things in common. It is very important, that Children and parents have found the general theme for conversation. Begin dialogue, tell, discuss, ask questions. Will not notice, how will find mutual understanding and again will hear that you the most favourite daughter at Parents.
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