GOOD MANNERS

Good manners



Everyone who considers itself as the brought up person, should be able in practice correctly to apply the Education. After all still A. P. Chekhov noticed that «good education consists not that you will not spill some sauce on a cloth, and that you will not notice if it somebody makes another». Also it is truth! Sometimes even the Brought up people commit elementary errors by own carelessness. Therefore not to be trapped at an inopportune moment it is necessary to try to develop at itself a habit to behave properly not only in a society, but also at home.

By the way, house training will be rather useful as it is possible at home standing or sitting before a mirror to observe itself and to define that it will be better in this or that situation.

So, we will start Self-education.

First of all, young girls need to learn to hold a bearing and it is beautiful to go. Ability is beautiful to walk upstairs upwards and also it is beautiful to go down downwards is an important Indicator of education. Same it is possible to tell and about ability to sit. Quite often girls, taking seat on a sofa, a chair or an armchair, begin sutulit'sya. It is wrong. The bearing should remain equal in any situation. Besides, if sitting on a chair the brought up girl presumes to throw one foot on another in a low armchair or on a sofa the given position of feet looks vulgarly. Therefore for this situation the best variant will hold feet together, having pressed knees to each other and having inclined them in one party.

To position of a head of the girl the special role is taken away. After all the first impression about us develops how we hold a head - directly, haughtily or frowningly. The brought up girl should not dare to hold a head as in last two cases (haughtily and frowningly).

Sometimes at conversation with people of the Girl do not know what to do with hands. A fine exit from awkward position can become the bag for which it is possible to keep simply, or at conversation with someone to hold hands in quiet position along a body. Besides it the girl should not hold at conversation hands in pockets, excessively to gesticulate, click joints of fingers and to knock a fist on a table. All gestures of the girl should be corresponding and constrained.

Bright Display of bad manners considers an open loud yawn in a public place. The brought up person never it will allow itself and will try to yawn, if unbearable, as much as possible silently, without involving in itself attention.

The fit of coughing, as a rule, does not give in to control. At strong cough of companies cover with a scarf, and at an insignificant tussiculation - a palm, slightly having turned away a head aside.

Inadmissibly «shmygat'» a nose in a public place. But also smorkat'sya in public too it is necessary to be able. Is inadmissible to do it loudly that it was audible all present. For this purpose it is necessary to leave in a ladies' room and to clear nasal pass.

Hiccups - the phenomenon independent of us. If the hiccups overtakes in an improper place follows, having held the breath, to drink small drinks a water glass.

Well and, certainly, it is not necessary to forget about Rules of dialogue with people as sometimes bad habits so irritate the interlocutor that deprives of its any pleasure of the further dialogue.

So, some Councils for girls:

It is impossible to turn at conversation to the interlocutor a back;

To say words it is necessary accurately and it is legible;

At conversation it is impossible to gesticulate actively, and also to finger a hand, a button or clothes of the interlocutor is very much irritates;

It is indecent to girl to "play" in a public place with the hair, ear rings, rings or a chain, and also loudly to laugh;

It is the extremely indecent to be picked in a nose or ears at conversation with someone, to gnaw nails;

Is impolite to spy often on hours at conversation;

Susan Jacoby It is indecent to pat itself on a stomach after a meal and to be picked teeth;

Frank beastliness is cleaning of shoes about a trouser-leg of trousers and pulling up of stockings through a dress.

And the main thing - needs to be remembered that people are involved in the person not with its external beauty, and modesty, personal charm and cheerfulness. With such people always simply, easily and comfortably.