LOVE - NOT A HABIT

Many steams (especially which meet already more than three years) spend a lot of time (to 80 % of free time) together and it seems to them that they have studied each other completely and to the slightest details. Long carrying out of time with each other starts to bother, and you feel a habit to each other. In such fast rhythm of feeling young that sharply die away, sharply light up. It leads to love crises because of what it is necessary for love pair to recharge their love relations.

The basic companions of love, such useful hormones as dopamin and oksitocin are. As they are allocated in an organism in small quantity, your relations became monotonous. You after all have noticed that passionate kisses are not present more, they were replaced with simple kisses in a cheek. And sexual penyuarchik your girlfriend, somehow has imperceptibly outgrown in a usual pyjamas. And it will be not surprising, if you at everyone had a favourite serial. Have learnt? Then it is a high time for you to think of sense of your relations and love as a whole.

That your love became same, as before, recharge the organism these hormones. For example, if you did not know, such hormone as oksitocin, is allocated at a simple touch. To increase the maintenance of this tender hormone in your organism, try to spend more time with darling and be in embraces each other more. Be not afraid to touch the significant other once again. Naturally during mad sex in an organism the large quantity of useful hormones is allocated.

Have lived together 7 years. Like all is normal, have celebrated a wedding, has passed time, already copper wedding, children has approached, a family, all life became your egos. Old friends to find not probably, they too have wallowed in the home life. Work and stresses, overfatigue from fast rate of a current of time. Absence of regular sex. All it negatively affects your relations, and here suddenly there is an unexpected second love crisis.

How to leave a current situation? Take a leaf of a paper and write all reasons on which you do not want to be engaged in it. Let your elect will do too most. Then read all points, will find the general things in common, and try, somehow to find a way out. Yes, eventually, descend in fitness club to raise an organism tone. Sometimes process of withering of relations occurs for so-called «matrimonial short-sightedness». If you have thought that it is time to you to the oculist wait. Scientists have proved that each seven years of the joint life, all cages in a human body are updated, therefore in seven years with you nearby there is already absolutely other person. All in your hands, begin all with the beginning. Add passions in the eyes and tempt anew the favourite.

So, has passed 15 years. You already enough adult and skilled. Looking back back, in the past, you consider the victories and defeats, admire the feats. Compare the successes to successes of your contemporaries, it can sometimes appear that your contemporaries have outstripped you in something. There is a revaluation of family values, old insults are remembered and the pair starts to reflect on, whether time in vain with this person who is nearby is wasted.

Yes, time of a recharge of your relations has come. During such period, is better to start to remember your first appointments as your relations have begun. All these constant guessings. And whether will call? And whether loves? Constant doubts, fear to lose it for ever, all these things struck fire to your relations. Try to arrange the second wedding, or the second appointment. Sit down in different vehicles, for example, in the bus or the underground and meet in other city as though, casually and get acquainted anew. Try to play in role-playing games which, by the way, happen not only sexual. Each days off try to do what you never did earlier. Prepare a land, dance something unusual, climb on the top of the world. Naturally it will occupy from you time, but these actions will lead you to success in your relations. Your former feelings will renew with the same passion and the same sparkle that was earlier. Your long joint life will be filled by happiness and love.