PINK GLASSES

Pink glasses
Girls, will suffice to look through pink glasses! Concerning the Girl very often use this reference: «Remove pink glasses, the girlfriend!». That who not in a course will seem that pink glasses simply subject of a glamour image or a fashionable accessory.

Actually here all is serious. Pink glasses are something zapolonyayuschee a reality, something not allowing to distinguish imagination from a reality. The person lives in the real world, but its thought, feelings, acts move to imaginations. At the person the overestimated level of claims. He wants what basically cannot be. A syndrome of pink glasses persons of a female frequently suffer. Why so occurs!?

From the first day of the birth the person gets to society. Passes different stages of socialisation to which there correspond any social institutes: the family, a kindergarten, School, the domestic companies and etc. In each of these institutes the person learns something new, there are representations about something or about someone, it has certain Stereotypes.

And so, since early years parents read to girls fairy tales where the protagonist who rescues the princess, the fine prince on a white game is. From this point on in a head of the girl there is a certain image of the fine light, Happy future. The future in which there will be that fine prince - the ideal man. Further the girl goes to a garden, in school and there like as is defined let still with frivolous, but a choice. But not here that was. Mum says that boys bad, pugnacious, silly and etc. it is impossible to be on friendly terms With them. And an ideal still there is all the same fine prince from a fairy tale.

Pass year, the girl changes. Its physiology, external shape changes, character traits are corrected, and the stereotype that remains! Now the unfortunate Girl should look through a prism of these stereotypes. Happens, of course, so the guy like as it is close to an ideal, but not without "cockroaches". But it can to try be corrected, altered well or to correct. And if the guy is very far from this ideal!? Naturally it is necessary to put on pink glasses. Otherwise how to build the Happy future!?

The girl accepts all habits: good and even bad, moreover itself without realising, justifies all bad and silly Acts of the favourite. In such condition many forgive even changes for that simple reason that to Vasja the most good and loving. Vasya of the such it is not capable. And Vasja very much even is capable, simply Vasja uses that its favourite goes in Pink glasses. To avoid this sort of situation it is naturally necessary to get rid of it spoiling life of a subject.

Think, what merits the elect should possess. Do without the help of girl-friends and mum. Be closer to a reality. Do not imagine to itself quality of the knight. Write down these qualities on a sheet of paper in a column. Draw vertical line and nearby (in other column) write qualities which Vasja possesses. Whether coincides there though something!? No. It is necessary to do conclusions!

Certainly, it will be at first very difficult without this accessory. But further - it is more. Looking at the world through a reality prism, it is possible to meet, of course, not the prince, but at least close to an ideal. Special value give to a word the REALITY. People live, without releasing the past or dreams of the fine future at which naturally it would be desirable to look in Pink glasses.

The present there lives very small percent of mankind and it is a problem of everyone! The main thing to be able to appreciate that is today and now. In all it is necessary to find only good, only that does everyone Happy, happy with life and self.