SECRETS OF HAPPY MARRIAGE

Love, you will tell? But sometimes (is more true, almost always!) one love has not enough. Otherwise why then among loving pairs was so many divorces? Unfortunately, universal councils about preservation of happy marriage are not present. As well as panaceas against divorces. But all is some simple councils, observing which, you can come nearer to that ideal which name - happy marriage.

1. Trust, trust and once again trust. To trust each other it is important in any relations, and especially - in family. After all it is impossible to be living on the edge of a volcano all time, checking a mobile phone and mail of the husband, supervising its each step, and expecting a dirty trick?.

2. Be friends. Pay each other attention, support difficult minutes, share the problems. Be partners not only in bed, but also in all vital circumstances.

3. Speak with each other. Discuss arising problems that there were no half-words and reticences. Such serious problem follows from absence of conversations in a family, as misunderstanding. Do not hold in itself discontent in itself which all the same will pour out sooner or later in quarrel. It is better to begin meaningful dialogue at once.

4. Do not criticise. Everybody will run away from the constant criticism. Besides no means always this criticism happens constructive and benefits. More often to the person whom all time criticises, it would be desirable not to change for the better, and simply to leave therefrom where it do not accept such what it is.

5. Do not alter other person. You after all have married this person? So what for to try to make of it someone another?

6. Do not compare the husband to others. Especially with the former lovers. Present itself on its place?.

7. Leave free space. Both for itself, and for it. After all you not Siamese twins, and two interesting persons whom always should be about what talk.

8. Be improved! Be fond, study, get a hobby … Be interesting to other person!

9. Diversify your joint life. Marriage is not only household routine. It at all routine! Travel, go on exhibitions and to clubs … conditions Change - the best means against boredom and discontent the friend the friend.

10. And the last: Simply love each other.

Remember that life is too short to spend it for such unnecessary things, as quarrels and altercations, and the love - is too fragile constantly to test its cavils and discontent.