THE FIRST DECLARATION OF LOVE, WHAT WITH IT TO DO?

The first declaration of love, what with it to do?
Yesterday the first time the schoolmate has made a declaration of love to you and has suggested to meet, and you do not know as on it to react? You noticed for a long time on yourself its Loving looks and here it a recognition. The first that occurs is to answer "Thanks" or «I will think», and what further?

We will share simple Maiden secrets how adequately to leave this uneasy situation.

So, we will consider 2 situations:

The situation the first - the boy at all is not pleasant to you. How to refuse and to offend thus the enamoured?

First, it is not necessary to be frightened, completely not necessarily you should divide its feelings and admit to it reciprocal love. The love is not always mutual and to it it is necessary to be ready.

Even if it at all is not pleasant to you, it is not necessary sharp words. It is possible to refuse and it is beautiful, without having offended the person.

Thank him for sincerity, tell that you need to learn, look narrowly is better it at it, therefore while you are not ready to answer it of anything.

Besides, appearance is deceptive, communicate to it at school, by phone and other accessible ways, and suddenly it actually the interesting interlocutor, at you the general interests, and you will like dialogue with it.

It is not necessary to laugh over enamoured at all even if you do it not in the person, and with girl-friends at it behind the back, it is not less insulting and it is ugly.

If you like absolutely other boy, the ugly behaviour concerning this boy, you will push away also a subject of the sympathy.

The situation the second - the boy too is pleasant to you.

Even if you are enamoured of it, it is not necessary to rush at once to it on a neck and to make a declaration of love. Make a pause. The man on the nature the conqueror so allow to it itself to "win".

Agree to meet it and, already in the course of appointments, reciprocate on a recognition if you will want, certainly.

Spend time with advantage, swaying along the street is simple will quickly bother, go to the cinema, on exhibitions or any other interesting actions that then it was possible to share impressions, to discuss and is better to learn each other.

That there were good impressions of time spent together, go there where it will be interesting to both. If it would not be desirable to go somewhere, to think up something another is better, than to force itself to represent delight, from unpleasant action, to what these of a victim.

In any relations it is necessary to be the diplomat. Before something to answer, always put yourself to the place of another, as though you reacted to the answer that you would like to hear and only then answer.

Remember main is not last recognition in your life, the more naturally you will conduct yourself, the it will be easier to you.