THE MAN DOES NOT WANT TO WORK: WHAT TO DO?

Today before many families there was a question that not man, and the woman becomes the supporter in a family, and also the getter of food and money. And one more heavy burden is charged fragile shoulders of the courageous wife: now it not only the mistress of the house, careful mother, the tender wife, but also the getter. Numerous problems which are required from the woman, do her life difficult, however no means always it manages to force to provide the husband a family financially. How to find stimulus for the man who will motivate it on job search?

Certainly, at the beginning it would be desirable to run from such loser who does not search for work, up hill and down dale. It is an exit, certainly. But hardly probable it will be possible to name it correct.

Unique council which it is possible to give in such hard situation - analyze. You will come to a conclusion that between spouses, and strong their love would be how much strong, always there is a competition. Probably, it exists only at subconsciousness level, but pours out in clear enough and real facts. Here a situation: the husband have discharged from office, and the wife approximately during the same time has a career growth. It turns out that the man has appeared in outsiders, and the woman became the leader. Psychologically it is very difficult to husband to overcome that feeling even somewhat inferiority, which they under the circumstances. To endure a current situation adequately it is rather difficult. Here the thought also comes what supposedly what for to work, if on the most necessary all the same suffices. And if will not suffice, the wife will earn. What to do in that case? The answer is extremely simple: It is necessary to give the chance for the husband to feel again the man, strong, responsible and strong. How it to make? Yes it is very simple: tell that at you a problem on work, complain of colleagues - thus you will push him to job search and will amuse vanity. Anyway, work will not be at once, but, be assured, will pass some weeks, and all will be adjusted.

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