The word "the flirtation", for a long time known to each of us, both in the theory, and in practice, goes back to the Latin word, the designating name of a flower, and the gift to the woman of colours »was initially treated as«. On another, not linguistic, but historical, versions flirtation has arisen among courtesans who used its methods for attraction in the networks of well-founded men. Today flirtation is not perceived as a certain unilateral action, it is interaction of two people, nice each other and adjusted on dialogue.
It would seem, in such business as flirtation, cannot be any rules and laws, but all the same flirtation has the rules and the basic methods. We some of them will list more low:
Eye-in-eye sight. Remember, the well-known formula «in a corner - on a nose - on object»?. And so, last link in this chain usually also dements men. However such directly the sight should not last longer 5-7 seconds, differently risks to become not so not exciting, and vulgar and persevering.
Smile. A smile a secret in general any dialogue, and between the man and the woman - especially. The smile can be the most different: teasing, inviting, soft, encouraging, defenceless … the Main thing - to smile it is more!
Sign language. The American researcher Alan Piza, has the whole book devoted to detailed analysis of value of each human gesture - free and involuntary. It and is called "Sign language". I think, it would be useful for everyone to read and study it, after all gestures never lie, because we make them mechanically, irresponsibly.
Feet. One of the main ornaments of the woman. The pose a foot-on-foot, hardly a falling down shoe from a charming leg … Is very strong reception! Hardly someone from men will manage to remain indifferent.
Mimicry. Duplicate a mimicry of your interlocutor is will help it to feel more free with you and it is confident, and will adjust you on one wave. However be not overzealous! Otherwise your partner will decide that you imitate it.
Ease. Flirtation is not heart-to-heart talk with the friend on kitchen when it would be desirable to share all problems and thoughts. Say only about pleasant things, that can be interesting to your interlocutor.
If to be the good psychologist on life, that, seeing, as the person flirts, it is possible very many to understand about its temperament, character, features … Probably, not casually therefore flirtation is usually the first step in relations. Though, of course, it is necessary to remember that flirtation anybody to what does not oblige and brings pleasure in itself, instead of from an ultimate goal.
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