Transition in other school. How quickly to join collective.
Transition in other school - business painful. How it is better to construct Relations with schoolmates? We will try to help with it simple councils.
To begin with try to get acquainted with schoolmates, the more friendly contacts at you will be, the it is more circle of your dialogue and that it will be easier to you then in collective. Ask as them call, it present as call you, tell about itself, learn about school, where a dining room, a toilet when a main recess, show interest.
Try to remember all names, children with which you have got acquainted, to people it is pleasant when to them address by name.
Behave naturally, but do not pose as "abrupt" even if was such at the previous school, about the person tell its acts, and only them you can create to yourself image.
Do not wait for general love even if so was at the previous school, here you the newcomer and schoolmates at first will look narrowly at you, and then will already fall in love or on the contrary, it will already depend on you.
Coming in the morning to a class necessarily greet, it is not obligatory to do it personally with everyone, the general «Greetings!» With a smile upon the face, will be quite enough, only consider that with children who have come after you, it is necessary to greet separately.
Try not to be allocated in clothes, choose style in which to you it is comfortable, but as much as possible approached to that other children in a class carry.
More often smile, nobody loves gloomy people, and here with the solar-smiling person to communicate pleasantly.
If someone from schoolmates has forgotten something houses, the handle, for example, and at you is superfluous, it is possible and to borrow, you it precisely to yourself will earn additional points.
If you do not know something, do not hesitate, ask about it friends. It is pleasant to much, when to them address for the help.
Find adherents, in the big collective necessarily there will be someone who is fond of the same and you, listens to the same music and etc.
Exchange with friends in co-ordinates, phones, ICQ, pages in contacts and others.
Try to discuss never nobody, besides, that nobody loves gossips, but also in the company where you discussed someone, there can be "well-wisher" who will turn your words upside down, will inform them to discussed in an unrecognizable kind and you will acquire to yourself the enemy.
When friends are ill, necessarily call, tell that was at school, share homework, talk about something, after all to the person of sadly and alone house to one.
If to someone from your friends sadly, carefully ask that happens, offer the help, sometimes even from simple participation, to the person it becomes easier.
It is possible to be on friendly terms not only with girls, among boys quite good children too come across, it is necessary to look narrowly only.
If you already razznakomilas' with schoolmates, it is possible to invite them to itself, arrange the small party dated for any event, can even to the invented. If the most part invited has come, all means at you you have turned out also have perfectly joined new collective.
Besides it is possible to judge the relation to and without a party if to you even more often address for council, invite somewhere, let even in a dining room, share secrets and etc., you mean is interesting to people and it is pleasant to communicate with you.
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