WHEN LANGUAGE - NOT THE ENEMY, AND THE ASSISTANT

Secret of happy relations - in dialogue. That between two people contact remained, it is necessary - to speak. But what exactly it is necessary to tell, that your man, first, correctly you has understood, and secondly, felt desired and happy?

1. Men love a praise. And the range here is wide: beginning from a skilful thin praise, stopping (the main thing not to be overzealous rough flattery with the last, and that the man can suspect you of insincerity). Praise its successes on work, in a hobby, its sense of humour … even hammered after three years of reminders the nail needs to be noted an incentive word - and be assured, your man to you will not forget it (in the best sense of a word).

2. Many of us, having read female magazines, start to represent from itself languid temptresses, calling to the man for work and whispering in a tube various sexual, in our opinion, nelepicu. But, strangely enough, the effect in 90 cases from 100 can be opposite: the man can be excited working questions, and your call will seem to it inappropriate and annoying. Be careful with such receptions: can be, instead of phone call is better to write it the letter on an e-mail? Anyway, do not do it too often.

3. Simply talk. Remember that you for your man not simply mistress or the housewife, but also the friend. And for that wait usually from the friend? Correctly: warm dialogue and participation. Ask it about future plans, about affairs on work, about mutual relations with colleagues and friends … But be not overzealous! The majority of men do not love, when it «climb in soul». Be sensitive: if the man is adjusted on conversation, in every possible way encourage it but if see that he wants to sit down and keep silent simply - give it such possibility.

4. Love it. Also speak to it about it. It is not necessary to ask constantly: «You love me?» Certainly, if it with you he loves you, unless it is not obvious? Here approximately in such logic the majority of men argues. And to us, women, words are necessary. But whether it is should extend a recognition from the man, and most to speak to it as you love it, without asking reciprocal words and then your tenderness and an openness will liberate it in due course.

So, that it was not necessary to remember once again a saying «my language - my enemy», remember the most important thing: be iskrenni, are opened, but nenavyazchivy and then your man will understand that at it the best woman in the world.