Bonnie Iker Vejl, scientific of New York, says that when you choose to yourselves the significant other who delivers you many difficulties, you as though throw down a challenge to the private world and the subconscious problems with which for a long time it is time to you to understand. What to do in this case? To change the darling? Or to find another? We will help you to understand this article with this problem.
We take such case. You are ideally suited for the half, at you all opinions converge, equally look at the life, identical stereotypes, but in one you do not agree in opinion - in sights to money. Whether it is possible to consider it as a problem? It is not necessary. For conflict prevention on soil nesoglasij, familiarise with the information given in this article. It will help you to preserve the peace and calmness in relations.
First of all it is necessary to be defined in common with accumulation of money.
That conversation on this theme has passed more easy and successfully, suggest to discuss such important themes as the future trip, a birth of the child or contributions for the house, in any crowded and quiet place, for example in cafe or restaurant.
If it does not help also all of you have not found common language, try to solve all compromises, for example at first spend money for a trip abroad, and next year postpone for the house, only it is a bit more.
Operate monetary questions together.
Proceeding from definition of family happiness that money, love and serious relations is a pledge of happiness, it is possible to draw a conclusion. That the married couple was the happiest, distribution of duties of the financial plan as everyone should know where its or its money and on what it is important or it them will spend. For example, he pays tick, to credits and so on, and she buys products. It will help you as there will be no questions at issue concerning money and in the future it will be easier to wean from some duties.
Therefore, if at you a problem in financial relations with favourite easy discuss and think, as you can change it. It will result fortunately your pair further.
We advise more to kiss.
This law was opened still by Vejl, the researcher and the author of the monography «Financial incorrectness». It is statistically proved that people make purchases after quarrel much more often, than usually. It is called purchases with despair. On the average one campaign on shops as a result of such disputes will manage in 500 standard units. The is more often quarrel, the more money spend.
At a kiss the organism develops dopamin, the same hormone is developed and at spontaneous purchases. Therefore, to avoid superfluous expenditure of money resources, kiss darling more.
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