ETHICS OF TELEPHONE CONVERSATIONS

Ethics of telephone conversations
Some nuances of Telephone dialogue

Since Phone has strongly taken the place on our shelf, and a bit later - and in a handbag, the young woman with a tube with an enviable constancy becomes the heroine of insulting jokes and unusual stories. That you have not turned to this young woman, we suggest to read and remember contents of our "crib".

Phone - not means for tortures

Everyone will agree: Phone - a piece devilishly convenient. Thanks to it, it is possible not only to be charged by positive emotions, having chatted with expensive person, but also to solve millions problems: to ask council, to learn news, to agree about a meeting and even to call to the aid. However, as soon as we start to abuse calls, phone turns to the enemy. Abusings there is a set. We will list the cores.

Your call to another's house made after twenty one hours, can cause someone's fair indignation. With arrival of darkness of many drives at a dream. Therefore if you are necessary for calling - do it before the late evening.

Sounds of the telephone melody distributed before ten mornings on Sunday, can spoil mood on all the day off. Hardly you burn with the desire to become that the reason. And consequently - if it is not assured that there where you are going to call, all have already woken up, - wait a little with a call. Wait midday.

The person, in a receiver we hear whose voice on mnogu time in the course of the day, risks to us to bother. If you do not want to cause irritation - do not wear out calls. It is not necessary to call to the subscriber more often an once in day.

And still! Phone serves not only to two interlocutors. There are also other interested persons it to use. According to norms of Etiquette, the limit of telephone conversation should not exceed ten minutes. As a last resort, fifteen.

Voice and lexicon - your cards

Good form rules extend on all areas of life. To hear a joyful greeting by phone it is not less pleasant, than at personal meeting. «Hi (those)» nobody cancelled a word. Thus it is not important, whether someone has called you or you have dialled someone's number.

And time of a rule to us prompt even children's songs. For example, that that about a smile. Probably, it will seem improbable, but from a smile becomes more light and when our interlocutor it does not see. We offer you experiment. Henceforth all telephone conversations conduct, smiling. People will feel it. As a result, about what there was a conversation and with whoever you conducted it - it will be much more pleasant than if to conduct it with a fast look. The timbre and tone are important also: talk benevolently, not too loudly and not so silently.

You can take offence at adults who straighten out you a phrase «do not set silly questions». And you can not give occasions to this phrase simply. For example, having dialled incorrect number, do not anger the person who has lifted a tube by questions of type «and what it for number?» Or «and who it?». He can to ask itself also you about it. Your asking will be more pertinent if, having heard in a tube an unfamiliar voice, you will politely apologise and will specify: «Tell, please, I have got under number five hundred twenty - thirty seven - sixteen?» - in such form remember, where you wanted to get.

Ability to conduct conversation never happens superfluous. You will be convinced of it, becoming absolutely adult, - when by means of conversations will start to solve important business problems. Start to comprehend elements of this art already now. Each time, having dialled someone's number and having greeted, it do not forget to be presented. Your desire to remain not learnt can cause suspicion. Especially - if you have called the boy, and his mother has answered your call.

Remember: the polite interlocutor has more than chances to wrap up conversation to own advantage, rather than at the shouter-rowdy. Do not condescend to roughness. Even if the opponent of that deserves. The person, dreaming to become the leader, should be able to supervise emotions. Confidential training will help with it: suffer a little if temptation to break on shout it is too great, dare to splash out irritation right after conversation end - abuse already switched off telephone set. Becomes worse from it not. And, by the way, to hang up it is necessary to get rid of a habit quickly. Itself you know, it causes what fury.

In hands of the silly fellow Phone - an inutile trinket

Finishing section of this original Telephone crib - not about conversations. But to follow its helps - it is necessary. There are situations when your cellular should not publish a sound. Therefore disconnect it (or at least translate in a silent mode) if you have come to cinema, theatre, church, on a lesson, lecture, or became the participant of any important action with listening of performances. Be not afraid to pass a call: the person it is important to them to talk to you, will phone to you later. You can call back to the rests itself - at more right moment.